BYOT

For the sake of ease of use, cleanliness and a certain sense of privacy, when we use sex toys with a partner, we should be ever mindful.

Most people should travel with their own toys or if they don’t should be prepared to cover a toy in a condom and toy use should be well discussed before simply begun.

Many people play with their personal toys for masturbation and never want to include them or any toys for that matter when they have sex with a partner. Still other people are woefully turned-on to the idea of having a toy that they are not acquainted with used on them, something from their lover’s own personal stash. There is no rhythm or reason to why we want to use a toy, in conjunction with a lover’s attentions or in lieu of it, but our toys are as much part of our sex as a lover can be.

The confident lover will realize that there is a time and a place for toy use, that a lover getting-off with a toy doesn’t mean they can’t necessarily get-off without, that introducing an adult toy into the bedroom is no true comment in how well a lover is performing or the sexual compatibility of the couple.

But when one does use a sex toy, cleanliness is indeed next to Godliness. Hygiene is of the utmost importance and if and when we use our toys condoms and gloves are best included, especially with any insertion play-anal insertions most of all-it’s best to cover up and snap on. This is why ultimately sex toy play is a BYOT situation, where most people should bring the toys they most likely want to use and only use them or have them used in their orifices.

Buying adult toys has never been easier with all the sites devoted to their purchase on the net. One can peruse pictures, read descriptions and order and manner of toy anonymously, to be delivered discreetly. And though we can be outfitted well with any manner of new sexual aid, grab the latest rechargeable vibrator, keep up with the newest and best clamp, cage or cream, we should always bring as much of our toys as we can to the party where they will be used.