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Odd Couples
5284 days
by Healy
in Adult dating, Advice, Attraction, Break Up, Celebrities, Charm, cheating, Confidence, Personality
Have you ever looked at a couple on the street and thought to yourself “How is HE with HER?!” Just a warning, this blog post is going to come across as extremely shallow, but think about this: as much as you may not want to admit it, physical attraction DOES matter in an adult dating relationship. It is one of the first things that attract people to each other. First impressions are usually based on how a person looks, not based on an amazing personality.
Well, there are many “odd couples” in Hollywood that have definitely had negative press related to their own personal relationships. Hey, if the sex is good leave them alone, right? Here are some of my favorite odd couples.
Katy Perry & Russell Brand
At first glance you may be thinking “What’s the beautiful bombshell doing with the creepy hairy sex addict?” Think again, having a sense of humor is a major turn-on for some women.
Soon Yi and Woody Allen
Soon Yi is Woody Allen’s stepdaughter AND wife. Yeah. Wrap that logic around your head. I’m not justifying this one.
John Hutchinson & Courtney Stodden
This 51 year old Lost star just married his 16 year old bride. Yes, the age difference is creepy, and if they acted like a normal couple I would attempt to justify this relationship, but if you watch any interview with these two you will be creeped out of your fucking mind.
Ashton Kutcher & Demi Moore
Personally, I like this odd couple. Demi is a total babe, and Ashton is the man for being able to bag a hottie. Also, her children with Bruce Willis get along perfectly with Kutcher. Hell, even Willis himself is a Kutcher fan. What a happy little family.
Emmy Rossum & Adam Duritz
Again, many people love to judge this odd couple based on her good looks and his, uh, looks. He isn’t the most attractive man, and his dreads are a little crazy, but maybe dreads are a massive turn-on for her. You never know. Also, I’m sure he’s an amazing guy. He’s definitelytalented musician
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Marilyn Manson & Evan Rachel Wood
Yes, Manson is scary looking. But if you listen or watch interviews with him you may notice that he is kind of a genius. Yes, he has abused drugs and still probably does, but most of Hollywood has. I see this odd couple as a little girl who has a crush on a rockstar, and a rockstar who is lovin’ the attention he’s receiving from his woman.
Harvey Weinstein & Georgina Chapman
Honestly, other than physical attractiveness I don’t see anything “odd” about this odd couple.
Madonna & Jesus Luz
Madonna is banging an extremely good looking man 29 years younger than her. He gets along with her children and they make each other happy. Good for you, Madonna.
Mariah Carey & Nick Cannon
No one thought this relationship would last. And then they got married. No one thought the marriage would last. And then they had twins. They seem like they are truly in love. Whats wrong with that?
Sandra Bullock & Jesse James
Before the horrid split, no one understood what she saw in him. She kept defending her love for him in interviews. And then the whole world saw his true colors. Poor Sandy. I guess not ALL odd couples work out for the best.
Are You Open To Open Relationships?
2298 days
by Healy
in Adult dating, Advice, Break Up, cheating, Dating, Insecurity, Jealousy, Open Relationship, Sex
Open relationships can be a very tricky and controversial topic to cover. Instead of stating my opinion or cold hard facts on the topic, I’m going to tell three mini stories that are all related to the subject of open relationships.
A college friend of mine claimed to be in an open adult dating relationship while we were both in college. Of course I assumed he just wanted to have as much sex as possible while pretending to be in a “real” relationship at the same time, but he kept claiming that the relationship was working so I decided to observe it for a while. It turns out he was lying and his girlfriend thought they were monogamous. Bad move.
Another two friends of mine, who were dating each other had an open relationship. They both set out ground rules and always claimed that it was going fine whenever anyone asked them about it. However, don’t believe everything you hear, because it turned out that the female in the relationship secretly didn’t like the “open-relationship” concept and wanted to switch to being completely exclusive with her partner. He was not interested in that idea and they broke up.
The third situation was pretty much identical to the second situation. For some reason it is almost always the female in the relationship who starts to become jealous of their man sleeping around with other women (understandably).
Personally I don’t believe open relationships truly work, and I also don’t believe that I could ever be in one. The idea of knowing my partner is sleeping with me and other random people at the same time kind of makes me feel sick to my stomach. I understand the general idea of why people think it may work, and why they may decide to try it out, but it seems to have a failure rate of 100% (in my perspective, at least).
What are your thought on open relationships? Would you try it if your partner asked? Are you for them or against them? I’d love to hear feedback in the comment section of the blog.
Later gators.
Don’t Become That Green-Eyed Monster
1346 days
Feeling jealous is completely normal, but don’t let it turn you into a crazy paranoid freak. Being jealous can make you feel things in your adult dating relationship are worse than they actually are. Stay “out of your head”. As much as the idea of hiring a Private Investigator to follow around you man may seem like the best idea, it isn’t. Stay calm and remember these tips:
Trust your judgement. The main reason people get jealous is because they don’t fully trust their partner. This can lead to outrageous thoughts that he or she is constantly doing something wrong behind your back even when it may not be the case. Give your partner the benefit of the doubt; you don’t have any solid proof that they’re doing something wrong and if you start accusing, you’ll look like a lunatic.
Don’t snoop. Try you best to resist the temptation. If your partner leaves their cell phone on the counter, don’t look through it. If they leave their Facebook page open, don’t look through it. Even if you do find something bad, you will look like the crazy one for sneaking around in the first place.
Don’t eavesdrop. We all know this can lead to miscommunication, and you will only hear half of the conversation and automatically assume the worst. If you can’t help yourself when he is on the phone with his buddies, leave the room. Try your best not to listen to his conversation. It will only get you into trouble.
Don’t resort to ultimatums. They will only make you look desperate. making your partner choose between you and hanging out with his girl friends may just annoy him and make him choose his friends over you. Always think about how you would react if he were to do the same to you. I’m sure you wouldn’t be too pleased.
Is Cheating Really That Bad?
1359 days
A lot of my buddies have been bringing up the subject of having an affair or having sex with a married woman to me recently. They seem pretty into the idea of sleeping with a married woman, and aren’t too morally bothered with the idea of breaking a sacred vow. Clearly it isn’t that sacred in their minds. They keep asking my opinion on it, asking me if they should do it, etc. This has inspired me to write the following blog today.
At the end of the day, having an affair is up to you. You have to be morally comfortable with the idea yourself in order to go through with the affair. Most women who are looking to have an affair are just using these men as an outlet for sex, not adult dating. They want to unleash their inner sex-beasts and go wild; probably something they are able to do at home which is why they are deciding to cheat in the first place. So it is highly advised to keep in mind that you are only an object, a walking penis and nothing more.
There is always the possibility of arising complications with affairs. What is her husband finds out? What if you start to develop feelings and she doesn’t? What if you want to continue the affair on a purely sexual basis but she’s over it? Because it isn’t a proper relationship be aware of the messy details that will most definitely come along with banging a married chick.
Finally, keep in mind this thought and see how it makes you feel: “What if she were my wife?” How would you like it if your wife was unknowingly going off and fucking 20-something guys instead of you every night? I’m betting that you would highly dislike this situation. In fact, I can’t think of one man that would be okay with the idea of his wife being unfaithful.
To finish off, cheating is purely your decision. You need to be aware of the consequences before you engage in any adulterous activity. But in my opinion, yes, cheating really is that bad.
