Adult dating has never been so fun!
College
The Good Ol’ Walk Of Shame
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Everyone experience the walk of shame at least one in their life time. The morning after a wild night out is usually a rough experience. Your hair is all messed up (what I like to call sex hair), your feet kill from the heels you were wearing so you walk bare foot with shoes in hand, you’re in the same clothing from the night before (usually a skimpy party dress, which totally doesn’t make you look out of place at 9am on a major street), and you’re hung over and tired. Sounds like a lovely experience, right?
There is even a company that produces a Walk Of Shame Kit. Inside on the metal tin there is a dress, backpack, flip flops, toothbrush with toothpaste, a card that says call/don’t call on it, and a breast cancer awareness bracelet. How perfect is that? I think it’s pretty genius to be honest. The product is marketed to both men and women, promising that these ladies will never beg to borrow a t-shirt in the morning as long as you have a few of these kits hid away in your home. Who knew adult dating was so intricate?
The walk of shame can bring out many emotions in you. First, you may feel a rush of excitement from leaving so abruptly like that. Then, you may feel a little dread or guilt about running into your one night stand. Finally, even if you haven’t run into him, you may feel a bit disappointed that he didn’t even attempt to contact you, text you, BBM you, or write on your Facebook wall.
Here is my piece of advice: don’t feel guilty about the walk of shame. Turn it into a pride stride, hold your head up high, and be glad that you got some last night! Lord knows all the people giving you looks the next morning didn’t get any. Who cares what they think, they’re just jealous, right?
Will I Have A Girlfriend In College?
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Going off to college is a huge step. You’re worried about a lot of things; classes, grades and of course, dating. College is clearly a great place to meet people. So here’s how to find out if you will have a girlfriend or boyfriend in college:
It depends on you: A magic 8 ball cannot tell whether you will truly have a girlfriend in college or not. If you’re hanging out alone in your dorm room playing video games, you’re not going to meet people. There are thousand of great people at every college or university, and most of them are out of town and have left their families and friends at home.They’re looking to meet people and develop friendships too
How to meet girls in college: When you’re not studying, make an effort to go to some of the on campus activities. Most colleges and universities offer a variety of activities such as volleyball, football, pool, etc. Pick up the campus newsletter and find out things that are happening and get your studying done so you can plan activities. You could also hang out at the campus coffee shop, study hall or even the student union. Keep an open mind and a friendly, positive attitude and don’t be afraid to approach someone to say hello!
Don’t get discouraged: Even if you don’t meet someone right away, don’t stress out. If you continue to put yourself out there, you will eventually meet someone that wants to date you and vice versa. Start by making friendships and spending time with new friends. Meet them to eat at the dining hall or meet for a study group on the weekend. Friendships open doors to meeting new people as well, because you’ll get to know the friends of friends and so on. Eventually you’re bound to hit it off with a girl and start a fun, exciting new casual relationships that might turn into something that lasts!
Remember that dating in college is all about having fun and learning new things. If it doesn’t work out with one girl, it doesn’t mean you will never find anyone. This is the time to pick yourself back up and get back in the game.
Ultimately, when you present your best self, people will want to get to know you.