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Cure His Insecurities
2305 days
The sex is good, he makes you laugh and when you need to be treated like a Queen he is always by your side. However, you adult dating relationship – just like many other things in life – is far from perfect. If he is the type of guy to constantly call, text or email you to ask where you are and demand your daily schedule, he is insecure. If he is constantly claiming you are cheating, partying too much, or doing things that you really aren’t, he is insecure.
You man is suffering from the classic case of “insecure boyfriend”. Maybe he feels like you are too good for him and you could leave him at any moment (that would explain why he tries to guilt you and break you down for things you haven’t even done). Maybe he has never experienced a real, good, solid relationship before and all of his ex girlfriends are psycho and they treated him like a horrible little boy until his ego had been shatter and whittled down like a piece of drift wood. This problem can be harder to solve mainly because he doesn’t know right from wrong in a relationship. Technically it isn’t his fault that all of his exes treated him like shit.
Now, here is what you can do to help solve the problem. Help re-build his ego. Tell him that he is amazing in bed. Tell him and reward him when he does something good for you. Yes, this is a form of Pavlovian conditioning, but you’d be surprised at how well it works. Humans respond well when they get good feedback and a reward. Eventually take away the reward and your man should be in good shape, or at least better shape. Good luck!
3 Rude Things To Say To A Woman You Just Met
0459 days
by Healy
in Advice, Attention, Attraction, Charm, Compliments, Confidence, Pay Attenetion, Rude, Small Talk, Uncategorized
When you’re in the adult dating world, you don’t necessarily have to say compliments to her in order to impress her. Whether you’re face to face or you’re chatting through online dating services, do you think the jerks and the bad boys she falls for tell her how beautiful and perfect she is? They catch her attention by saying something out of left field and sometimes it’s even downright rude. You need to be able to walk right up to a beautiful woman, grab her full attention in two sentences and be just one step away from getting her phone number.
Here is exactly what to say:
Saying “whoa, you can’t just do that…” to a woman on the street or sitting next to you on the subway will guaranteed to stop a woman in her tracks. You can use this flirting technique on women who are working or even women you work with. The trick here is to follow it up with a compliment about something she’s doing:
- “Who you can’t just do that…when you walk in here smiling like that, I lose my whole train of thought.”
- “Whoa you can’t just do that…Your smile is too pretty to walk right by me without saying hi.”
- Whoa you can’t just do that…Something about your energy is messing with me. I can’t take my eyes off you.”
You’re catching her attention with a kind of rude sentence, but then flipping it around to a positive compliment. You’ll have her full attention and the surprise sexual attraction she gets when she meet someone truly charming.
Saying “I can’t believe you just did that!” after she does something. Your goal is to make her think that you did something embarrassing or wrong. It’s OK to make her think this because you’re about to make her feel good with a compliment:
- “I can’t believe you just did that…Walked right by me without apologizing for having such a great smile, I forgot everything I was thinking about.”
- I can’t believe you just did that…The way you move has almost a hypnotizing effect. And for a split second, every single person in this room was looking at you.
Saying, “Are you seriously going to do that?”
- “Are you seriously going to do that? Walk right by me without saying hi.”
- “Are you seriously going to do that? Walk right by me without saying hi? What’s your name?”
Then you tell her your name and ask her what she’s up to. This way you’ll get her name and you’re on a better small talk conversation.