The scenario is always the same. You have been chatting online with someone who you are starting to fancy. At first you were skeptical about using adult sex dating websites, but after chatting with a few people you found in the adult personals who live  in your area, and a little encouragement from your friend, you decide to go out on a date with this person. Then, all of a sudden, hours or even minutes before your date is supposed to take place, you new found online romance calls you or texts you saying he/she can’t make it because of one or all of the following reasons:

- My dog died
- My Aunt is sick
- I broke my hand
- Im not feeling well
- I forgot about other plans I already made
- I have a migrane
- I have to go to the hospital
- There is a family emergency
- I can’t find anything good to wear
- My hair won’t cooperate with me today, maybe another time
- My cat got out and I have to find him
- My car wont start
- I got called into work
- My cell phone died, I couldn’t get hold of you
- My water just broke and Im in labor

Okay, maybe the last excuse was taking it a bit too far, but you see where I’m heading with this, right?  Nobody likes a flake. It it very easy to get pre-date jitters and want to call it quits at the last second. But think about it, what is the worst that could happen? Your date goes horribly, you two don’t get a long and your date is five inches shorter and 30 pounds fatter than he/she claimed. So what? a date is just a date and when its over you never have to talk or see that person again.

I only say this because when your on the receiving end of being bailed on, over and over, it gets tiresome, frustrating and annoying. If you are constantly bailed on by a flakey person you just want to yell at them and tell them to stop being such a pussy. Or at least I do. Better luck next time to all of you who have to suffer with flakey people in your lives, just remember this – they’re the ones missing out!

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