When you’re in the adult dating world, you don’t necessarily have to say compliments to her in order to impress her. Whether you’re face to face or you’re chatting through online dating services, do you think the jerks and the bad boys she falls for tell her how beautiful and perfect she is? They catch her attention by saying something out of left field and sometimes it’s even downright rude. You need to be able to walk right up to a beautiful woman, grab her full attention in two sentences and be just one step away from getting her phone number.

Here is exactly what to say:

Saying “whoa, you can’t just do that…” to a woman on the street or sitting next to you on the subway will guaranteed to stop a woman in her tracks. You can use this flirting technique on women who are working or even women you work with.  The trick here is to follow it up with a compliment about something she’s doing:

  • “Who you can’t just do that…when you walk in here smiling like that, I lose my whole train of thought.”
  • “Whoa you can’t just do that…Your smile is too pretty to walk right by me without saying hi.”
  • Whoa you can’t just do that…Something about your energy is messing with me. I can’t take my eyes off you.”

You’re catching her attention with a kind of rude sentence, but then flipping it around to a positive compliment. You’ll have her full attention and the surprise sexual attraction she gets when she meet someone truly charming.

Saying “I can’t believe you just did that!” after she does something. Your goal is to make her think that you did something embarrassing or wrong. It’s OK to make her think this because you’re about to make her feel good with a compliment:

  • “I can’t believe you just did that…Walked right by me without apologizing for having such a great smile, I forgot everything I was thinking about.”
  • I can’t believe you just did that…The way you move has almost a hypnotizing effect. And for a split second, every single person in this room was looking at you.

Saying, “Are you seriously going to do that?”

  • “Are you seriously going to do that? Walk right by me without saying hi.”
  • “Are you seriously going to do that? Walk right by me without saying hi? What’s your name?”

Then you tell her your name and ask her what she’s up to. This way you’ll get her name and you’re on a better small talk conversation.

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