One of the most wondrous experiences we have in life is the experience of sex. Our ability to become engorged and wet with arousal, to stimulate each others’ erogenous zones, and to achieve orgasm is truly one of the great joys and miracles of being alive. Anything that we can do to share our pleasures and to enhance that pleasure is a great thing.

This is why the invention of sexual enhancement devices is a wonderful addition to our sex lives. What a shame it is that some people still fear the simple vibrator.

Men have felt threatened by it, believing that if their wives or girlfriends get used to the feeling of deep vibrations inside them, they will become bored with the pleasure provided by a real, flesh and blood penis. Not all vibrators are made for women. It was reported that the man who created the premier male vibe, the Fleshlight, did so for his enjoyment while his wife was pregnant and unable to have intercourse. She was apparently supportive, but on the condition that he get rid of his toy after she was able to accommodate him again. What a crazy idea it is that a toy would be a replacement rather than an enhancement.

In a healthy sexual relationship, the introduction of vibrators can be a great facet of pleasure to explore. Some men really enjoy watching a woman probe her pussy with a smooth or ribbed cylinder, or a small vibe to stimulate her clit.

Some men also enjoy using the vibrator on his lover, perhaps stimulating her further with kisses and suckling as the vibe works its magic. Women can get off on watching men, too, with a made-for-men vibrating canal, and some like to be the ones at the helm controlling the vibrations. Both men and women can enjoy anal vibes. If you’ve ever had fear around vibrators, try to let it go. Let adventure out to play.

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